I was sitting at my desk at work one day staring into the computer. Although it looked like I was busy studying something on the screen, I was actually daydreaming of luscious green grass and hills filled with heather. You ever done that? Got caught up in a daydream about traveling to some exotic place, perhaps Paris, London, Rome, or Iceland? The scenery of England and Ireland had been calling me for years but I was single, over 40, and just too afraid to travel so far from home alone. I was also concerned about the cost and taking the time off work. Well, a year later I didn't have to worry about taking the time off because about 40 of my coworkers, along with myself, were downsized and now I had all the time in the world. Thoughts of taking that trip to England kept coming back in my mind. I had the time , I thought, and a nice severance package to boot. A trip to a place where I've always wanted to go would be just what the doctor ordered!. I decided to check out some travel agencies and travel packages, flights and dates and before I knew it, I'd booked my trip.

A few weeks before my trip, I was invited to a small dinner party where there were only 6 guests; couples mostly; and me the "single-middle-aged-fun to have as a guest" friend. Don't get me wrong, I'm not one of those "woe is me I'm single" people. In fact, I rather enjoy it. At my age being single is like a habit I can't shake. You get used to being alone and the thought of sharing your space with someone else feels nice for about "a weekend". After that, it's time to go your separate ways and just be free in your own space. Anyway, during dinner I thought I'd let everyone know that I was going to take a trip to England and that I was going alone. To my surprise, everyone started talking at once. The response was not what I expected. "Oh, you'll love England, I went there on a summer holiday by myself years ago" one said. "I've traveled many places alone and really had a great time", said another. "I always meet the most interesting people when I travel solo" yet another said. I was so excited and relieved to find people who had actually been brave enough to go for it. I wanted to have that experience and I did.

I went to London for 8 days and had the best time of my life. I toured the main sites, the Tower of London, the British Museum, took a Beatles tour, a cruise on the Thames River, went to the theatre and saw a play and so much more. So, don't be afraid to go solo. You would be cheating yourself of the experience that could be the best time you've ever had. Always be aware of your surroundings, travel light. Don't pack too many clothes, shoes, etc. And keep your money in a secure spot. That's what I did and I didn't have any problems. I enjoyed it so much I am pursuing a career in the travel industry. Check out my website, “Place to Place Travel" at www.ytbtravel.com/onmyway2. Go ahead and book that trip! Bon Voyage!